Dealing with people you don’t like

There are always going to be people in your life with whom you just don’t click. You can’t be friends with everyone. Those people are going to be in your life and you need to deal with them appropriately.

There are two possibilities:

  1. This person you don’t like isn’t in your friends circle. He/She is maybe someone from school or a colleague. If this is the case just try to spend your time on something else than being annoyed with them. I know that this can be difficult, especially when you’re annoyed by their voice or laugh, but they are not worth your time. Complain about them as much as you want, but it’s just a waste of time. Also don’t confront them if you still need to spend a lot of time with them, because that’d be very awkward.
  2. This person has somehow become your friend. Well at least they see themselves as your friend. If you like this person then you just have to get over yourself and not be annoyed by little things. However, I do truly believe that if you don’t actually want to be friends with this person then you need to talk to them and tell them that you might not be good as friends. You’re just leading them on if you keep being their friend. This can be very difficult and probably awkward at first, but you need to spend your time being happy and being around the people you like.

Have a nice day!

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